Understanding
Talking
What Can I Do?
Birth to 3 Months
Startles to a sudden loud noise
Be soothed or calmed by your voice
Turns head toward you when you speak
Appears to smile or otherwise focus on voices when spoken to
Wakes up in response to loud sounds
Coos, gurgles, and makes other pleasant “baby sounds”
Mimics facial expressions (sticks tongue out when you do so repeatedly)
Has different cries for different circumstances (hunger, discomfort)
Start reading simple board books to your baby
Sing songs to your baby (let them see your mouth move)
Become aware of your baby's moods and diffferent sounds
3 to 6 Months
Turns or looks toward source of a new sound
Responds to changes in tone of voice
Enjoys toys that make sounds (rattles, etc.)
Begins to repeat simple sounds (aah, ba-ba, ooh)
Makes razzing or bubble sounds, even when eating
May squeal or shriek
Begin using simple sign language with your baby (more, all done, eat, sleep, bye bye)
Imitate movements, faces and sounds your baby makes so that you have a "conversation"
6 to 10 months
Responds to his/her name
Responds to environmental sounds (door bell, telephone, etc.) even if not loud
Begins responding to requests such as “come here”
Looks at objects when someone speaks about them (look at the birdy, etc.)
Knows words to common items (bottle, diaper, etc.)
Babbles to self, even when alone
Babbling may sound "speech-like" in tone
May begin to sign common words (milk, all done)
Expresses preferences clearly, if still nonverbally
Continue signing
Sing “interactive” play songs (itsy-bitsy spider, wheels on the bus, I’m a little teapot) to your baby
Talk about what you are doing while you do it (I'm washing your hair, next we'll do your arms).
10 to 15 Months
Enjoys games like peek-a-boo
Can follow simple (one-step) commands accompanied by gestures
Plays with her voice, taking pleasure in changing sounds
Points to familiar objects or people when asked to
Imitates simple sounds
Uses at least one word meaningfully
Imitate sounds and words your child says
Ask simple questions while reading: who's that? where's the duck?
Keep reading
15 to 18 Months
Follows simple commands (give me your toy) without being shown
Can point to some body parts when asked (Where’s your nose?)
Uses 2 or 3 word phrases to make requests or describe something (look doggie, more milk)
Talks in what sound like multi-word sentences (meaning may not be intelligible)
Talk about common vocabulary during daily routines (body parts while getting dressed, etc)
Label items and actions in the environment
Teach your child to point to what they want if they don't know the word.
18 to 24 Months
Responds to simple yes/no questions (Are you hungry?)
Understands simple phrases (on the table, in your crib)
Enjoys being read to
Understands you when you call from another room
50 words (pronunciation is unclear)
Asks for food by name (yogurt, more milk)
Uses possessive pronouns (mine)
Regularly uses 2-3 word phrases
Makes animal sounds (ruff, moo)
Read together
Have your child point to pictures in books
Encourage child to use their words for communication
Model good language for child
Talk about what's going on around you
24 to 36 Months
Can choose things by size (Show me the little block)
Understands “not now” and “no more”
Can follow two step commands (get your toy and come here)
Understands many action words (run, jump)
Vocabulary of 250 to 1000 words
Speech is clearer (strangers may not yet understand due to dropped word endings, etc.)
Uses simple pronouns correctly (me, you, her)
Uses descriptive words (big, happy)
Knows some spatial words (on, in)
Uses 3 or more words in a sentence
Answers simple questions
Begins to use or experiment with past tense (I jumped) and plurals
Uses inflection when asking questions
Don't correct pronunciation or grammar, but model correct versions. (i.e., child: "I do'ed it!" parent: "yes, you did it!")
Describe in detail events that happen to the child throughout the day. "First, we'll go to the store, then we'll go to the playground. Maybe you'll go on the swings."
Expand on what your child says without expecting them to repeat. So, your child says: "bird!" You say, "yes, I see the bird too. It's a pretty red bird that says 'tweet tweet'".
3 to 4 Years
Answers a variety of simple "wh" questions (who, what doing, where)
Understands a sequence of events described to him/her (first we'll ___, then we'll ___)
Understands most of what is said to him/her about events in immediate past, present, future that are directly related to child.
Understands terms like "yesterday" "later today" and "tomorrow"
Points to pictures in books based on verbal description (which cat is sleeping?)
Can identify colors
Can accurately group items (animals vs. food vs. clothing)
Strangers can understand most of what your child says
Has fun with language (reacts to silly questions like is there a giraffe on your bed?)
Can begin to express ideas or feelings
Uses consonants in beginning, middle and end of words (may not pronounce all consonant combinations clearly, but attempts to do so)
Uses –ing verbs (walking, eating, etc.)
Play with sounds and language: make silly word combinations
Continue reading!
Respond to his/her comments with encouragement for more: "really? what then?"
Label feelings for your child: "when you fell down you really felt hurt and mad"
Cook with your child to work on sequencing and vocabulary.
4 to 5 Years
Understands most of what is said to him/her about recent past, present and future events.
Understands terms like "next week" and "in the fall"
Knows a variety of colors and shapes, including some less common ones (light blue, diamond)
Can answer why questions
Follows complex directions, (after you get your shoes, get your backpack)
Understands complex questions
Understands more complex spatial descriptors (next to, behind)
Speech is reliably intelligible to family & strangers (long/complex words may still be mispronounced)
1500 word vocabulary
Defines words
Uses some irregular past tense verbs (ran, fell)
Can describe how to do something (how to make a sandwich, paint a picture)
Listen to and enjoy unique thoughts of your child
Ask open-ended questions: what do you think will happen?
Provide definitions for new words /concepts
Expose to a variety of activities with new vocabulary
Encourage your child to "read" and "write" by drawing pictures and dictating or scribbling a "story", making a shopping list, etc.
5 Years
Understands the majority of what is said to him/her AS WELL AS what is said AROUND him/her.
Learns new vocabulary easily
Recognizes certain letters
May know some letter sounds
May recognize some words in context
2000+ word vocabulary
Can explain & follow at least three-stage sequences (what happened first, second, third, etc.)
Sentences can be more than eight words long
Actively uses imagination to tell stories
Uses multiple descriptors (including comparative references) to describe an object
Engages in elaborate conversation with adults and peers
Pay attention to your language and topics around your child
Explain new vocabulary clearly and concisely
For complex topics (sex, race, etc) answer the question that the child asks (not the one you think was buried underneath)
Talk TO your child -- he/she is probably good company.
Point out signs in the environment that your child may recognize (stop, street signs, restaurants)